Jacob wanted all the privileges of being a man, but not the responsibility that goes with that. Follow the story of a disillusioned young man in his mid-teens without a father, of the trials of a single mother who struggles with understanding the realm of manhood, and of a man who knows how difficult it can be to stay true to himself as a man in today’s world.

Cloughley has worked in the human services field for 20 years. Some of that time included working with men and women, as singles and couples, whose lives and families had been ravaged by alcoholism and drug addiction. Having been a single parent for several years, Cloughley can now add a personal level of experience to the insights he shares in this book. He is especially proud of his son and daughter and the human beings they have become in the world.

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"I have a great respect for Jim, his work and talent to share knowledge through his books. I would recommend this book to any parent, friend, mentor, social worker, or big brother/sister who is looking to further their understanding of the children in their lives."

"Whether male or female, young or old, this book will help you understand more fully the process of growing into manhood, and the importance of having strong models and mentors to help along the way."

I would recommend this book to any parent, friend, mentor, social worker, or big brother/sister who is looking to further their understanding of how the children in their lives tick.”- Mike Leone, President of Big Brothers Big Sisters of South Niagara